Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Did you know?


 The following are demands made by Brunei that were put forward prior to its joining Malaysia:

1.      10 Parliamentary seats

2.      Domination of all oil revenues

3.      Autonomy in financial matters at the early stage

4.      Sustaining all its investments

5.      Sustaining low tax rates

6.      Continuing education and welfare programmes

7.      Demanding that Brunei’s security in Malaysia be guaranteed

8.      Requesting that the Sultan of Brunei’s domination in the Royal Council start from the date of his reign as a sultan, and not from the date Brunei had entered Malaysia





p/s: Good luck to my MPW students for your upcoming final exams. =)

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Carrot - Egg - Coffee Bean

What can a carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee teach a young woman tired of fighting and struggling with adversity and heartaches? Read on and find out the lesson the young woman received from her mother.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as when one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.

She let them sit and boil; without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, “Tell me what you see.”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, “What does it mean, mother?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water. “Which are you?” she asked her daughter.

When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.

If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level?

How do you handle adversity?


Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
Author Unknown

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

What Goes Around Comes Around

One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn’t look safe; he looked poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was those chills which only fear can put in you. He said, “I’m here to help you, ma’am. Why don’t you wait in the car where it’s warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.”

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn’t thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him.

This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.
He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, “And think of me.”
He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn’t erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan.
 
After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.

There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: “You don’t owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I’m helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.”
Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard….

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, “Everything’s going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson.”

There is an old saying “What goes around comes around.”
Author: Unknown

Monday, July 16, 2012

Life is a Gift


Today before you think of saying an unkind word–
think of someone who can’t speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food–
think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife–
think of someone who is crying out to God for a companion.

Today before you complain about life–
think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you complain about your children–
think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep–
think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive–
think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job–
think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another–
remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down–
put a smile on your face and thank God you’re alive and still around.


Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, and Fulfill it.




Wednesday, July 11, 2012

The Pencil & Eraser Story

Pencil: I'm sorry !
Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.

Pencil: I'm sorry because you get hurt because of me.

Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it.

But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself.

You get smaller and smaller each time.

Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this.

I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong.

Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one,

I'm actually happy with my job.

So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad.

__________________________________________________

I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational.

Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil.

They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes.

Sometimes along the way, they get hurt, and become smaller / older, and eventually pass on.

Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse),

but parents are still happy with what they do for their children,

and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

All my life, I've been the pencil.

And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day.

For I know that one day,

all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have.

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We never know the love of our parents for us until we have became parents

Monday, July 2, 2012

Thursday, June 28, 2012

GNS 1203 Team Building Camp 2012: WHY=AIR MAX + SEE

Fourth activity: 'Why=Air Max + See' aka Flying Fox

Flying Fox sounded easy and fun right?

But, Dusun Eco Resort added one 'challenging' element to get to the Flying Fox station. It's the super scary hanging bridge.

My students enjoyed the hanging bridge, but NOT me. I barely stop everyone...Lambat macam kura-kura. But I made it through! Yeah~





Wednesday, June 27, 2012

GNS 1203 Team Building Camp 2012: OH-OWL

The third activity: 'Oh-Owl' aka NightWalk



Alamak, got 1 clear photo only. The rest 'tak nampak apa-apa'.

GNS 1203 Team Building Camp 2012: ROUGH THINK

Here's second activity of the day: 'Rough Think' (Read: rafting)





Tuesday, June 26, 2012

GNS 1203 Team Building Camp 2012: WHOLE OF HOLES

For student project, we went for a 2D1N camp at Dusun Eco Resort, Bentong, Pahang from 23rd - 24th June 2012. No need to say much, let the pictures do the talking. =)

This is their first activity: 'Whole of Holes'









Friday, April 20, 2012

So Long, Farewell~

MPW 2153

MPW 1133 A

MPW 1133 A

MPW 1133 B

MPW 1153


"You'll never forget the first! Thank you my dear students for the great experiences that we shared."

Friday, April 6, 2012

January Session, DONE! Now let's focus on April Session

April Session

I was given a new subject to teach --> GNS 1203 (General Studies) for foundation student.

This subject is not like MPW (compulsory subjects). Among the syllabuses are:

1) Time Management
2) Listening Skills
3) Note Taking Skills
4) Goal Setting
5) Social Etiquette, etc.

When I viewed the course structure, it seems like this subject is similar to the 'Starting School' program conducted for first year university student at my previous uni. Great! I like this kind of subject. After all, I'm a social scientist. I prefer outdoor class learning and mutual learning experience, of course. Let's hope for the best. I heard that teaching foundation student is a bit more challenging than A-Level. Bring it on! I'm ready for it. =)


Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Ipad Oh Ipad

My students are all canggih-canggih....All have Ipad. Bila nak belanja I ni? =)

Matthew - Jia Gin - Mun Hong

Jessica - Allo Jia Gin, smile at me lar! - Mun Hong

Matthew & Adelyn

Navina comel!

I want one! =)

They played after class ended. I hope U do well in your mid term test the other day... =)

My Beloved MPW 1153 Students

This occurred last week when we played the game 'Win-Lose-Or-Draw' during class.

Kant's Group 'shy-shy cat' discussing method. =)

The Engineer's Group are full of ideas..

Sri & Satish - I dunno what they're doing at the back.. Hmmm?

Huaa..Engineers!! Very efficient!

I dunno what this fella was imagining thinking when looking at Yon Sze.. ;p


BenZhi - Class Rep. When is our next Roti Canai session? =)

My Kant's are geniuses, and my Engineer's are brilliant. =)

My class Super Hero - Kelvin the sound effect guy. Hehe..

I love my students. =)